Sunday, June 19, 2011

Bulk, Bugs and Goodbyes....

Well…at least I’m not a month since my last post. We continue to try to get the compound running at a smooth pace. I would say we are making progress, although we are still figuring things out. Some things are coming more easily…some things are still a continual struggle. The water situation has been much more consistent, thanks to some ingenious engineering by TCBITW. Power and internet still come and go (internet less so thanks to some battery back-ups), although I have determined if I have to live without any one thing…power and internet are MUCH easier to do without than water!  

Our two 40 foot containers got off from Little Rock this week…can I hear a big WOO HOO…come mid-August (please Lord, mid-August), we will have a plethora of things we either can’t get here at all, or are so expensive (and cheaply made), they aren’t worth buying. We have everything from generators to furniture to toilet paper (and DO NOT EVEN JUDGE THAT DECISION) coming in bulk, and oh how grateful we will be for all things large and small! I have to give a great big shout out to some folks without which the containers would not have gotten off (much less with all the things we need)…the whole wolf pack (Braswell’s, Chapman’s, Greenwood’s and Woodham’s). They did everything from coordinating the shipment to runs to Sams, Home Depot, etc. at the last minute. Russell’s mom and dad, Roy and Salliejane, who lent the use of one of their garages as a staging area, and had to put up with daily UPS arrivals and being there on pick-up day to make sure everything made it. That saved us a lot of time and money not having to have a separate storage area for all the container stuff, not to mention the hassle, for them, of having stuff piled up for months and months. My mom and dad, who put up with Josh, his bum knee and his friend, Coop, who got into LR right in the middle of all the hoopla.  And, last, but not least, Brit and her husband, Kelly, who have been a continual source of help with us living here…They are always willing to do WHATEVER they have to do to make sure we get what we need, when we need it! I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again…we simply couldn’t be doing what we are doing here without the STRONG support of both our families and all of our friends.  We would be half as productive (and let me just say that half as productive and we might as well not be here) and A LOT more stressed (and people, I could not TAKE a lot more stressed) if it were not for that support. Words honestly can’t do justice to how thankful we are for them all!

One thing we are still trying to get a grasp on here in beautiful downtown compound land is the creepy, crawly bug situation. About two weeks ago, I popped up with 47 bug bites (yes FORTY-SEVEN…I counted every last one). The biggest, itchiest bug bites EVER…to the point that I did a round of steroids, didn’t sleep for days on end and was pretty much M.I.S.E.R.A.B.L. E!!! Here’s a hint…buy stock in Benadryl…I will personally see that you make money on that investment! So…after a few days and the steroids kicking in…itching subsided and bumps begin to disappear…but we still don’t know the creature that caused such a plague on my body…the Dr’s. King suggested several things…African Ju Ju Chiggers, and bed bugs were discussed…I don’t know if the African Ju Ju Chigger is actually a pest here, but apparently they do have chigger like bugs, and well, I did all the research on the dreaded bed bug, and all I can say is EWWWWWWWWWWWWW…..I immediately went to work to try to find out if we, indeed, did have the little things, and let me just interject here, that we, in fact, have bed bug specific covers on our mattresses and all the pillows, and Katie and I tore those things apart looking for tell tale signs, and well, there simply were not any. AND, TCBITW has yet to experience one bite, so I am leaning towards the African Ju Ju Chigger! All’s well for two weeks and then BAM…yesterday – 10 bites! DANG IT!! At least it’s not 47, but still miserable, although no steroids this time...can’t exactly stay on those for long periods of time, but see above about Benadryl investment – just sayin. If anyone knows where I can get a black-market supply of the twenty year banned, DDT, please send it my way…I’m willing to try just about anything….oh, to just have Orkin or Chem –Lawn!

We also said goodbye to Katie Rainey last week. Bittersweet for us all, and beautiful, downtown compound land is simply NOT the same without her. She was a joy to have for four months and we hope that it isn’t the last we see of her! She completes degree number two in December, so she will have a little more freedom after that! Her house will be waiting on her, should she decide she wants another go over here. Christine, Chantal and Jan Viere gave her a “surprise” going away party (photos included). It was very touching and sweet, and reminded me, yet again, why we can’t take our presence here lightly. The staff and people we work with do become attached and when we leave, they still don’t trust that we will, indeed, be back, even when we assure them that we will. We tend to think of what we do here as a project; they see us as their lifeline to a better future. Oh, the pressure of it all!! With her leaving, we also said good-bye to Lucy, Blanket and Charlie (since she was their primary caretaker, and thanks, but I don’t do the whole goat thing). We donated them to the deaf school just a kilometer up the road from us, and they intend to use them to teach the Orphan head of household kids how to care for livestock and use the milk for the deaf boarding students.  We wanted to make sure they went somewhere they didn’t just end of on the bad end of a shish kebab! And since I start my volunteer work there next week, I can keep an eye on them!

So…we continue to just plod along, doing the best we can….each day a different (and sometimes the same) challenge, but step by step, little by little, we are making progress! Prayers please, for the expedited arrival of the containers! We seriously don’t need any Atlantic hurricanes or Somali pirate takeovers of freighters….

Till next time….



Jan Viere, Christine and Chantal....



Christine and Katie..

Thursday, June 2, 2011

Steps Forward....

Wow….I can’t EVEN believe it’s been OVER a month since my last post, but welcome to my world these days… days fly by at a rate that I can’t believe and when the end of the day does come, we are so tired, all we can do is fall into bed… no joke… I’ve never worked so hard in my life to have things continue to be so hard…

Since my last post, we are trying to settle into the compound!! (Actually called the Musanze Opportunity Center) Not an easy task given the size of the place and the fact that the cutest boy in the world keeps letting people move onto the campus. Now, don’t get me wrong… that’s all fine and dandy, and we love everyone that’s here, but we are having a hard enough time keeping water, power, internet and cell service… ME worrying about everyone else does not, I repeat, does NOT help my stress level. So far, besides ourselves and Katie (and Josh for the month he was here), we have, Charles, a British guy who is working with Caleb King on some hydroelectric projects, Katie Jo, a college junior, who is working with the OneEgg.org folks, Nolan, a twenty something filmmaker here for a project and then sometime in the next couple of weeks, Bill and Susan Boyd will be here. All of a sudden, six houses occupied. Honestly, no one else can move in… we are flat OUT of all resources, like furniture, until our containers start to arrive in August… But, we have been very honest with everyone that we really aren’t ready for folks, so it is what it is… but it’s still hard for me, Miss Hospitality, who wants to make everyone all comfy and cozy. Ummm, yeah… that is SOOO not gonna happen for a titch of a while!!

So, everyday is filled with just whatever doesn’t work that day! We didn’t have internet (or reliable internet) until just this week… power outages have been a pretty constant issue, and we have now been without water for four, going on five days now… let’s see… oh, and we now have 20 employees, not four, for which we have a sit down lunch every day! Washers and dryers and refrigerators have blown up (but fixed by the cutest boy in the world), and the creepy crawlies are still an issue! The goats are all doing fine, although not producing the amount of milk we thought they would, and Frasier Crane has become a stalker… pecking on our doors when he wants attention or is hungry. Man, are we ever havin fun now!! When we DO have things functioning, we are doing our best to teach and train… a learning experience for us all!! But, on the up side… the yards and gardens are taking shape, signs are getting painted and the men and women on this campus (our employees) are learning what it is to be REAL men and women… not what the culture of Rwanda tells them. Men are respecting the women and the women are gaining confidence in themselves and their abilities. It is AWESOME to watch the change! We did just have our first “Big Dinner”…a Mexican feast for 20… minus the cheese dip, but I was tired of not tasting Mexican, so we just FIGURED IT OUT!! AND… we had our first taste of the goat cheese from Lucy’s milk (a week’s worth) …Katie’s pet (pardon the pun) project, and she FIGURED IT OUT!! SOOOO YUMMY!!

We were able to take 3 days and go up to Queen Elizabeth National Park in Uganda on a safari with both Josh and Katie… although what we were told was a 5 hour drive, turned out to be 12, but it was great, and actually spent our 26th anniversary there on May 4th.

It was SO great having Josh here, but even THAT ended up somewhat stressful, in that on Mother’s Day, of all days, he and Russell decided to go for a bike ride and on the way back down the hill to home (while they were RACING), his fender came off, rotated under his wheel, causing him to lose control and go down. He was hurt pretty badly… lots of cuts (some major) and bruises, and he clearly injured his right knee. He refused to go to the hospital, so RR and I proceeded to try to fix him up, but he did go into shock and for a few hours, it was pretty scary… but we all stayed calm and got him comfortable, but for the last week he was here, he was laid up on our couch and left here on crutches and looking like a mummy because he had so many bandages. THANK GOD he had on a helmet, since it was completely trashed, and CLEARLY saved his noggin from any injury at all (WEAR HELMETS PEOPLE AND MAKE YOUR KIDS WEAR HELMETS), but, he is getting better (and in Germany now) and will have an MRI when he gets back to the states. All Rainey’s are now officially banned from bikes here in Rwanda – honestly!!

We got Josh on the plane out of here on the 14th, and later that morning, Russell and I got on a plane to Cape Town, South Africa… we haven’t had more than 5 minutes alone in so long and were both so fried from all the stuff leading up to and moving into the compound (and frankly, I had HIT THE WALL), we just flat took a break, and was it ever JUST what we needed. We worked our way through the South Africa wine country… did nothing but relax and rejuvenate and drank a little wine here, there and everywhere (although we did hit up a bunch of home depot type stores to try to get as much electrical equipment as we could to help the power situation). The highlight of the trip was a helicopter ride (Valium anyone??) from the waterfront of Cape Town down to Cape Point and back up the other side, and around Table Mountain… a spectacular hour long flight… and a way to see that area like none other. So… 10 days in the South African wine country… lots of good food and wine (sushi three times -woot woot), and all relaxed to get back and face the next four months here in beautiful downtown compound land… except… it took us two days to get home due to some scheduling changes and conflicts of the airlines… but, an extra overnight in Johannesburg, and it all worked out in the end…

Katie was glad to have us back, I think, as she shouldered all of the burden while we were gone… and again… every day is just a “OK, God… whatcha got today kinda day” …the consummate planner in me is learning to take it as it comes (although I am not giving up easily), and realizing that this is a marathon, not a sprint… all lessons I find difficult, BUT I'm giving it up to the ONE who knows all, sees all and loves all… sometimes it’s just for me to follow, not lead, not ask why, just follow… I’m trying my best… sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t, but I am making headway… I THINK, in that area… and we really are making progress here on the compound… baby steps, but steps forward, nevertheless… so I'm always thankful for steps forward!! Here's to continued steps forward……

Till next time… enjoy the photos!!
Our newly painted sign...
Queen Elizabeth National Park, Uganda

Sunrise over Lake Edward - QENP, Uganda

Here kitty, kitty - QEPN, Uganda

African Kob - QENP, Uganda

Water Buffalo - QENP, Uganda


Hippo - QENP, Uganda

Our 26th - May 4th
Wine Tasting @ The Big Easy - Stellenbosch, SA
Room with a view - Zorgvliet Winery - Stellenbosch

Zorgvliet Winery - Stellenbosch

Klein Oliphants Residence B & B - Franschhoek, SA

Gardens of same...

Cape Point from the Air

And the same...

Table Mountain and Cape Town Waterfront from the air
Me riding shotgun...
Add here we go....


And a big thumbs up to our pilot, Stephen...